Honestly I went to this site before my wedding. I had no idea what to buy or what we would like. So I got the variety pack and it worked perfectly. We liked the variety pack so much that we’ve been just ordering those and trying different things every time. Super simply and easy to use website. The best part is, it’s private. What my wife and I do is between us and this is a super simple way to go about doing so. Highly recommend for anyone.