I actually had so much fun filling this out for my husband. I went for a mix of sexy and sweet, and he really loved it. I highly recommend this and products like it because I think it can be really meaningful in terms of growing closer as a couple. Maybe there are some things that go unsaid, or not said enough, and this is a really cute way to express how you feel about your partner that also gives them the ability to reflect back on your loving and sexy thoughts about them.