How To Make Sex Less Painful When Your Guy Has A Big Penis

Lots of people experience painful sex for various reasons. If the condition is medical, that’s clearly something worth talking to your doctor about. But in many other cases, the root cause is nothing more than an anatomical difference between two people.  In other words, a woman can experience pain and discomfort if the man she's sleeping with has a penis that is larger or longer than what is comfortable for her body.

In this equation, there are typically two focuses: girth and length. The classic solution has often been to use great lube (and in large amounts, that can help for certain), but that doesn’t solve the issue when it's less about the girth of a man’s penis and more about the actual length of his penis.

How to make sex less painful

For a couple who struggles to have enjoyable sex because fitting his entire penis inside of her is the actual issue, it is a no-brainer that painful sex (for her) is the common outcome. Which also creates additional issues as most men would prefer that they are eliciting great pleasure from their partner. And often, the unfortunate result is infrequent sex.

Obviously, in the heat of the moment, telling a man to “not push so hard” or to “pull back some” doesn’t always fix things. As climax happens, the intensity of the moment often weighs out and one of two scenarios likely occurs.

One, he loses his focus as his desire for deeper penetration and rhythmic thrusting takes over. Each time he move in and out, he causes more pain for his partner which has both a physical and psychological impact on their future sexual encounters. No one wants painful sex.

Or two, he becomes overly focused and worried about hurting his partner, and loses his erection.

When a couple have this kind of exchange, especially if it happens regularly and over time, deep seeded problems can certainly arise.

Painful intercourse causes interruptions in a healthy sex life.

Couples who experience this and can’t find solutions to “fix it” often have sex less or stop having sex altogether because they don’t want to hurt each other. Consider the number of people who complain about their sex life and the frequency of their sexual encounters, how many of these couples have less sex because it hurts not because they have low sex drive or have fallen out of love. If you’re one of these couples, you’re definitely not alone.

For couples in less established relationships, these couples simply don’t make it. Many breakup because the ideal of a life without pleasurable sex is unthinkable. This is especially true with the ongoing myth that the best sex of your life happens early on in a new relationship. For people in happy, sex positive relationships this couldn’t be further from the truth. Great sex comes from both novelty and knowing how to give and receive pleasure. In in that boat, familiarity helps.

So what can you do? If he has a large penis and you have a smaller opening to receive his penis, the challenge is very real.

Lucky Bloke is happy to share that for this situation, we finally, we have an answer:

Meet Ohnut.

 

Ohnut is an inventive little device that men wear on the outside of their penis to effectively hug the shaft while reducing the amount of penis required to “fit inside” of his partner to make sex enjoyable. It is a true win-win.

Men describe the Ohnut like a “hug”, which sounds a little strange until you think about it.

The anatomical issue with a big penis is really about the mechanics of sex. Climax is achieved by moving the shaft against the walls of the receiving partner. The Ohnut is a set of soft rings that a man places at the base of his penis effectively reducing the amount of penis shaft available to fit inside his partner as thrusting occurs.

It’s made of a super soft, stretchy material that’s BPA, phthalate, and latex free (so no worries if you’re allergic or latex sensitive) that moves with a couples as they have sex. This allows a man to have the feeling of deep penetration without the fear or worry that he is actually penetrating to deeply and hurting his partner.

And it comes with multiple rings to make the experience customized to the users. So if you’re a man with a large penis, and need a little cushion, you can slide on one of the Ohnut rings. If you want more space between you and your partner, you can add up to four rings.

The result of which is an adjustable plan for your sex life that fits your body type and desire for pleasure. In this area, every couples is different. So the customized options found with Ohnut are perhaps one of its best features. Use it however you like it and experiment with what causes pain or pressure, or removes all traces of it from the equation.

Ohnut and condoms.

Not surprisingly, Ohnut works with a condom too. You want to start with the right size condom (obviously large condoms may be the best fit, but if you're not sure, here's how to find your size).

Then, put the condom on properly (not sure, here's the step-by-step guide for how to put a condom on).

And finally, once your condom is securely attached, place your Ohnut over the condom, making sure the condom doesn't ride up or come out of place.

One final note, it’s important to be realistic about sex and pleasure, and in that discussion lube matters.

Our bodies change frequently. Stress, lack of sleep, medications and other reasons can cause a woman to be dryer than comfortable during sex. Further, for many women, the natural dryness that occurs with menopause also contributes to painful sex. So while the Ohnut will reduce the pain from penetration, if a woman’s body is not wet, you will experience a different kind of painful sex. One that is, gratefully, avoidable.

Lubrication is one of the critical ingredients to long lasting sex and ensuring that you’re safe and protected. For many women, the lube options for menopausal women are the very best because they take into account the natural dryness that many women experience.

The lubes in our sampler pack are some of the best and have been researched by Lucky Bloke customers for years. Their reviews speak miles for how well these lubes hold up for women of all ages, dryness levels, and physical needs. You’ll find lubes for people who preferences like “water based” or non-silicone as well.

So that’s it. If painful sex has been a part of your life, and if it’s not because of a medical condition, it’s very likely that a big penis is to blame. Instead of shunning sex, get creative. Ohnut is one of those “slap your forehead, why didn’t I invent that” kind of products.

From the reviews, men and women rave about it. The simplicity of how it works plus the benefit of pain free sex are what took this idea from a Kickstarter idea to a real thing.

You can get your Ohnut from us, and don’t forget the lube.  You’ll be impressed with how much more pleasurable sex can be.